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Verb[ないで]

Verbないで

Meanings

  • Please do not (for me)
  • Casual request

About this pattern

Explanation

Use ないで to make a casual request asking someone not to do something, especially when you want to avoid assuming you’re asking for a favor or when speaking among friends or family. It’s commonly used with verbs in the negative ない form to emphasize stopping an action or avoiding a behavior. It can soften the request compared to more direct imperatives, and it can target actions directed at the speaker or others. Note that the subject is often clear from context and the tone is casual; with strangers or in polite situations, use ないでください.

Learn in context

Example sentences

私に嘘をつかないで。

Don’t lie to me.

私にその話をしないで。

Don’t tell me that story.

ここに触らないで。

Don’t touch here.

私を待たないで。

Don’t wait for me.

私に関係ないことを言わないで。

Don’t say things that don’t concern me.